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He isn't to blame for me having feelings for him. All we did was hookup. I couldn't help wanting more. I am not angry at anyone but myself for loving someone that was only a hookup.

Yes I can't say he dumped me. Is that supposed to make me feel better?? I wasn't worthy enough to him to even have a relationship with. There are women out there who are total sluts. He chooses women that will boost his ego. Who, like me give him total attention and love that he craves. I am no slut and he always knew that. I didn't deserve this.

(cont) I had dreams for us and it clouded my judgement. I have my own self to blame. I felt such a strong connection to him, not like any other man I have been with. I can't deny that if he lied to me and led me on for so long I was nothing but a disposable piece of trash. That is what hurts the most. I don't trust men anymore. Can't even talk to them.

No dates but I was pushing for one the last year and a half. He told me its my fault we never moved forward. Deep down inside I knew he was lying to me. I felt if I found out the truth it would be easier to end things. But it wasn't. I lowered my standards to be with him. I don't put up with this treatment from other men.

You can't be dumped by someone you were never really with. Did you ever go on an actual date with him?

I hope he finds happiness too. Maybe this arrangement works for him. It seems to have worked for him for years. It wouldn't make me happy though. If he does meet someone in the future that he wants to leave his wife for. She will never fully trust him because he lied and cheated to be with her. I am at peace and done posting here.

Let me explain more fully. When I was married with three young kids in a marriage where my husband did nothing but lay around the house while I worked and took care of everything for years. I reconnected with an old flame, but before I had sex with him I told my then husband I was leaving him. I couldn't imagine lying and cheating behind his back.

First you say you're sick and can't eat or sleep, next you say you're at peace. Now you say you told your partner that you were going to sleep with another man. Are you hearing yourself? I told my ex out of compassion and kindness before I slept with another man?

Happiness comes from within not with another woman outside your marriage. Living a double life to get your needs met is not facing reality. It hurts the people involved. Not only that the quilt he may feel. I told my ex before I slept with another man out of kindness and compassion rather than sneaking around behind his back. That is the honorable way to go.

I don't know why message didn't go through so I'll say it again. I'm disappointed to read some of these comments. He is a good man with a big heart. I hope he finds happiness.

I'm upset to hear that he may be married but he is a good man with a big heart. He has been there for me when I really needed him and that means the world to me.

Lady, get over this....move on !!!!!!

We had rare chemistry. I never wanted to be with a man like I did with him. I wouldn't have cared if he was rich or poor etc. Deep down I always knew he wasn't being truthful, but I didn't want to believe it. I saw glimpses of his true self and wanted so much for him to let me in. I would have done anything for him. We could have had it all, and that is what hurts the most.

Not going to tell his wife or out him. I am done being angry and I'm now at peace. I really don't know what he is going thru at home. Happy men do not stray. Keep your men happy ladies and remember a man is only as faithful as his options

I know you are devastated. I was there once. Horrible treatment. We don't think the same way etc. etc.. I thought I loved him but really I loved the idea of him. Hot, sexy, successful, but in the end, he just made me feel like I piece of shit, a piece of ass, pathetic dumb woman that catered to him. I wanted him and his Larryness so bad that I repeatedly let him beat me down. Made me feel like I was nothing, I was crazy etc. He'd want these crazy sexual events. In the end he was using me to find woman for him to have sxx with.

Thank you for this information. After reading this thread, I'm curious, have you ever been on an actual date with him? If you know who his wife is, possibly telling her would stop the monster dead in his tracks.

He is going to continue this monstrous behavior until someone outs his actual identity. While the information below is very helpful, it will not prevent this moving forward. Another burner phone and the cycle will continue. I am sorry for the pain and suffering this has caused you.

I write here hoping to prevent another woman from experiencing this pain and anguish. Now I am going to need therapy to even begin to trust another man again. At this point I don't think I am going to want to date again for years or maybe ever.

Several weeks ago he told me we could finally have 4 dates if I had a threesome with his best friend where he wanted double penetration. Trying to take advantage of my feelings for him to satisfy is fantasy. He probably would have dumped me at some point rather than admitting his lies. I have been very sick ever since I found out the truth, not eating or sleeping. This is a monster in my book.

I told him I loved him and wanted more than hookups over the last three years. He gaslighted me repeatedly saying it was my fault we couldn't date. This has ruined my self esteem over time. Like I wasn't good enough. Then I found out he had been lying to me for years about who he was. He admitted he is married when I confronted him. I can't tell you how devastated and hurt I am.

He sent me a pic, I found the location and found who he truly is. He has a facebook account jointly with his wife that is still active with posts and shows married. He never texts or see you at night and rarely on the weekends. I met him 13 years ago and he was using this alias. I fell in love with him instantly but he ghosted me after a few sexual encounters. Met him again 3 years ago. cont

How do you know he is married and what relationship have you had with him over these last 13 years that now, after all of this time you are calling him a monster?

This pathological liar has been using the same alias for over 13 years so that he can cheat on his wife without getting caught. He has relations with multiple women at a time using no protection. He has no regard for misleading women who he hurts. Never met such a selfish person. He is truly a monster.

This person is not honest about who he is and what he wants. He's a ghost, you'll never find out anything real about him. This is by design and He's very good about it. You can search and search but you won't find him.

Not who he says he is. Pictures are not current. Please be careful with this one, his intentions are not true.

Wow, wow, wow!!! I don't know what to say, not only has he put pictures from 10 years ago but he used software to make him look younger in those photos. The *****en looking mess in the bathroom stall must be what he used to selfie verify. I'm so confused, what is he looking to ***n with these old (enhanced) photos? A chance to meet a woman and maybe hook up and then she'll be like ***, he doesn't look like that! He looks like the crypt keeper. I'm so confused, understandably.