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Victim of Technology Abuse & Harrassment: Harassing Phone Calls You could consider recording your phone conversations to keep evidence of harassing or threatening calls. However, check whether your state allows you to record phone conversations without the informing the other party. Some states will allow phone conversations to be recorded as long as one party is aware that the conversation is being recorded while other states require that both parties are aware. Phone Number/Caller ID Impersonation Do***ent your call logs by taking a photograph of the Caller ID. Be sure to include the date and time of the calls. Keep your phone records to show the number of the originating call, date, and time. Learn more on How to Gather Technology Abuse Evidence for Court : A joint publication by NNEDV and NCJFCJ.

Do***entation Tips for Survivors of Technology Abuse & Stalking ESPAÑOL Abusers and perpetrators will often misuse technology to further abuse and control victims. Misuse of technology could include monitoring technology use, including computers or cell phones, sending multiple unwanted or threatening text messages or voicemail messages, or posting negative comments or images of the survivor online. In some cases, how technology is misused to harass and control may seem unbelievable. However, it is important to trust your instincts. If you believe that you are being monitored or stalked via technology, you might be. Narrowing down what is happening, including the tactic and the technology used, can help to determine if stalking is occurring and if so, how to address is. The first step is to do***ent everything that is happening. Do***entation is important for many reasons: It will give you a record of what is happening, which may be helpful if you want to pursue legal actions. It will also alert you to any escalation in monitoring and control, which may indicate that the danger is increasing as well. It will help you see patterns of the technology abuse and may help determine how the abuser is misusing a particular technology. Do***enting Tips Keep a log of all incidents, even if you are not sure if you want to involve the police. Some of the information you might want to include is the date, time, location, officer information (if reported), witnesses (if any), suspected technology involved (e.g., phone, email, etc.), and a brief description of what the abuser did. See a sample Technology Abuse Log. Save everything related to the event or incident. If you receive a threatening note or a threatening message by email, text message, or voice mail, make sure you save it. Take a photo or screen**** of the message. While it may be tempting to delete it, saving it could show patterns to help you determine safety strategies and provide needed evidence. Think about technology that you suspect the abuser could be using. In some cases, survivors have strong su****ions about what technology the abuser is using based on the type of abuse, the tactics involved, and what they know about the abuser. Think about your safety first. In some cases, when abusers know that victims are do***enting the abuse they might escalate their monitoring, control, or physical violence. You will know best how to****ess the situation and what could happen. Trust your instincts and do what is safest for you. Do***ent only relevant information. Keep in mind that this information could****entially be introduced as evidence or i***vertently shared with the abuser at a future time. For example, you may not want do***ent personal photos that isn’t being used as part of the abusive tactic. What to Do***ent Email Emails contain IP addresses, which could reveal the originating IP address and therefore the iden***y of the sender. Because of that, it’s important not to delete the email and not forward the email to someone else. If saving email content by printing or taking screen****s, be sure to also save the email header (often hidden and can be found in the settings), which is where the IP information is stored. Depending on the email platform you are using (Gmail, Outlook, Yahoo! Mail, etc.), how you access the email header will be different. If you’re concerned that the abuser could access the account and delete emails, then try to print out or take screen ****s of the content, including the headers. Forwarded emails will lose the identifying information needed for evidence. Text Messages Text messages that are just stored on a phone may be i***vertently deleted or may be automatically deleted if you run out of ****e. Take a screen**** or picture of the text messages to retain the evidence. Also take a screen**** of the contact page to show that the harassing messages from the abuser are****ociated with the abuser’s phone number. Text message content is kept by the wireless carrier only for a limited time. If you are working with law enforcement, be sure to ask them to send a preservation letter to the phone company as soon as possible, so the phone company knows not to destroy the data.

National Domestic Abuse Hotline: Technology Safety & Privacy: A Toolkit for Survivors ESPAÑOL The following resources contains safety tips, information, and privacy strategies for survivors on the use of technology. If you are concerned about rea****g out to help, we have created a handout on Seeking Help Online: Considerations for Survivors. To talk to someone who can answer your questions and support you, call the following national hotlines: National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233, or by online chat. National ***ual****ault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673, or by online chat. National Human Trafficking Resource Center at 1-888-373-7888, or by textline.